Alright, it’s been requested that I address this, but it will be the last time that I do. Simply because I’d like to move on myself. Not only that, but I doubt this will be addressed. Such as it is.
I understand that wifely has been continuously mentioning me. I’ve witnessed it myself. And to me, and others, it seems as though she is trying to bait me into engaging her, arguing with her, what have you.
So I’d like to address wifely directly: no. I will not engage you. I will not feed this unhealthy obsession you seem to have with fostering drama. This will be the very last time I address you directly. You can continue to address me and call me various names and all but beg me to argue with you, but I will not be doing that.
I need you to understand that. And again, I entreat everyone to take the same approach as I am.
As I doubt she’ll see this, feel free to pass it on to her, as I don’t feel like speaking directly to her in her ask box.
social cue shaming doesnt make it okay for you to ignore me repeatedly begging you to stop hurting me.
To go away.
stop replying or regfering to me
stop reading my posts
and don’t you darre say that’s shaming when you knew to tell me do do the same
Just ignore her at this point. Seriously, it’s what’s best for everyone.
There’s a bonfire happening right now, just outside my window. It’s great, but I need to keep taking little breaks as the smoke is making my asthma worse.
Back out though! I’ll roast a marshmallow for everyone!
Alright, here’s what I’m gonna do. People are still clearly very angry about what wifely is doing - but if her almost gleeful responses as of late to someone getting angry at her are any indication, it’s what she wants. She wants everyone to engage her, even troll her. And I don’t think that’s something we should play into.
However, I understand the need to vent, I understand the frustration. So why don’t we use this post to get it all out, ignore her, and hopefully move on? Trigger warnings and censoring, of course. And if she engages, ignore her completely. Maybe a post like this will help, but ignoring her fully will help even more.